Remembering who you are

Being currently pregnant is a very powerful, centering, healing experience for me - and a great reminder of who we truly are.

When I first saw a certain ultra sound photo of the baby I started to cry - I felt so much energy, purity, bliss, love, connection, wisdom in that being. It is all there. Unconditional love. She is just herself, happy and in the knowing of who she is - pure love.

I feel the greatest gift I can give her as her mum is to meet her at that level and to create and hold a space that feels safe enough for her to keep being who she truly is. So that she can keep her connection, her knowing, her power and her wisdom. It is all there. I don't have to do anything. Just to get out of the way and to hold her. And sure, this will be challenging at times.

And if it is in her, it is in me, in you, in everyone. We just forgot. We allowed life experiences to seperate us from it. It's time to remember.

There is a human being growing inside of me and I am not doing anything to that. All the information is there, in her, around her. As it is in me and in you.

And it is a great reflection of what I teach: to be free we don't have to become anyone, we rather have to unbecome everything that is not us, that is not love. It is about reconnecting with our heart, our power and standing in our power, speaking our truth and living from our heart. That is what liberates you.

Every day gives us endless opportunities to be present, to let go of everything that is not love, to choose ourselves and to surrender to a higher power, to love. To decide every day newly who we want to be, how we want to show up in the world as love, how we can be an expression of our soul. How we react, speak, think, feel and behave in certain situations.

In the very beginning of this "work" I questioned what love means to me. And I created a completely new understanding of it.

It is not an emotion, a feeling. It is when I am truly present and let go of everything else. It is our essence.

And love doesn't mean to be nice,

it doesn't mean to like something or someone.

It is nothing that I have to earn,

it is always there.

It means to see, feel and accept every part of you (this does not mean you need to like it! there is a huge difference between liking and love :-)

It is the capacity to BE with every part of you.

It means to have compassion for yourself.

Love is courage, love is power.

It is not about being the nice girl and living from your heart is certainly not the easiest way - but it is the way that liberates.

It is not about doing everything for everyone.

It is about seeing your needs, hearing our soul, and allowing it to express itself through your body.

When you access more of the love you are,

you can bring true unconditional love towards others.

There is always more - and it is an ongoing journey.

I invite you to reflect on the following:

Where are you hard with yourself?

Where do you prove yourself?

How safe does it feel for you to receive love?

We are all human beings.

And we can choose to heal and live from love. Starting with ourselves.